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TUAW's tips for gifting an iPad for Mother's Day

Still searching for that perfect Mother's Day gift for your mom or wife? Why not get her an iPad?

Buy Mom a computer? You're kidding me, right? The iPad's versatility lends itself to some computer-like comparisons. And a natural response to this would be: "Who would want a computer for a Mother's Day gift? That's tacky." This would be similar to Al Bundy buying Peggy a bowling ball, only because he wanted it for himself.

Except that it isn't just a computer. As a consumption device, the iPad can also be seen as an appliance. No matter where you put it, it doesn't seem too out of place, and blends in with its surroundings well. This versatility, coupled with its ease-of-use, could make it an ideal gift for mom.

Now getting an iPad alone would be tacky. There's little thought behind it. Why not go the extra mile and customize an iPad for her? This will take some legwork, however. But who cares. This is for Mom, right?

Buying the iPad

First things first: buying the iPad. Sure, you can get one from your local Apple store, but why not try to save yourself a couple of bucks and get a used one? After all, you'll need to open the box to customize it anyway, so she won't know -- and shouldn't care -- if you bought it used or new.

In the past week, I've seen a noticeable flow of WiFi-only iPads up for sale on Craigslist, as many are being displaced by 3G iPads. Because the WiFi-only iPad has only been in the market for roughly a month, and because its use is more wear and tear prohibitive than say, an iPhone, you'll likely find many an iPad in very good condition. And if it comes with original packaging, great. If not, don't sweat it. It's what's inside that counts most.

Photos

Let's start with photos. Just picture the look on Mom's face as she peruses through pictures of all her loved ones -- you, your siblings, her grandkids, and other family. Photos on the iPad are organized by albums, events, faces and places. While you can certainly choose to sync all of your photos from iPhoto, that may not make the most sense for everyone. For instance, you may be limited on space, and there may also be many photos that you may not want Mom to see -- for example, of you chugging on a beer bong during your rowdy college days.

To make mom's iPad look "full" of photos, plan on syncing at least 12 albums and 12 events. In portrait mode, this fills the iPad's screen with three thumbnail stacks per row, going down four rows.

You may also want to sync different faces via iPhoto's Faces feature. While Faces is a great feature, the process of confirming face with name is time consuming, especially if you have a large photo library. One way to speed through this process is to mass reject faces during the confirmation process. It's similar to how you can mass accept a face and name by selecting a group of photos with your mouse, except that you just need to hold down the command and option keys at the same time.

While the Places feature in iPhoto is nice, geotagging your photos may be too time consuming. As geotagging on standard digital point and shoot cameras is a fairly recent phenomenon, you'll spend a great deal of time looking at your photos to figure out the location of your photos. If you have the time or a relatively small photo library, or just want to tag the photos you plan on syncing, then great. If not, it's not a big deal.

The iPad also makes a great digital picture frame, which Mom can place on her desk or bookshelf when she's not using it. The picture frames settings on the iPad are accessible via "settings" and tapping on "picture frame." There, you can choose transitions, zoom, whether you want to shuffle photos, and whether you want to display photos from a specific album. To get Mom to use her iPad as a digital picture frame, she just needs to tap on the photos icon (a flower) when the iPad is in lock position.

Calendars

No one likes to forget a birthday, special event or special day. While Mom may not throw birthday parties for you at Chuck E. Cheese's anymore, it's nice to remind her that your birthday (and everyone else's) is coming up. Although you can certainly setup a calendar and manually enter events on the iPad, entering them on iCal or Google Calendar is also an option.


If you have a MobileMe account, you can share your calendar in iCal by clicking on "File" and selecting "Publish." You'll then be given a webcal-based address of the calendar as well as a web-based one. The web-based page calendar has a link to the webcal (.ics) address of the subscription. If you tap on it with Mom's iPad, she'll subscribe to this calendar.


For those who have a Google Calendar account, setting up Mom's iPad is similar. Just go to the Google Calendar that you set up for her (it's a good idea just to create a sub-calendar on your account instead of a brand new account), and click on "calendar settings." Then, go to the "private address" area and tap on the green "iCal" button.

YouTube

You and your siblings have all these videos of firsts for your kids -- first steps, first words, first anything -- and would like to share them with Mom. Only problem is, everyone is scattered in different cities and states, making it difficult for her to see her grandkids.

Some of these moments are captured on video, and one of the best ways to share them with her is through YouTube. Just sign her up for a YouTube account (without her knowledge), and add subscriptions of all the accounts of family members. Now, whenever a new video is available, Mom can see them in her subscriptions list. If YouTube's privacy settings aren't up to snuff, you should be able to use Facebook or Vimeo video as well -- both should play OK on the iPad.

And Lastly...

Everyone loves music. Yes, even Mom, who probably went to her fair share of concerts and had a wild time (which she won't discuss) during her youth. If you happen to know or have access to your Mom's music library, great. You can import them into iTunes if you have the CDs, or you can purchase some of her favorite songs in iTunes. But if you're not exactly sure of her taste, an iTunes gift card is a good option. She can use this to buy some of her favorite songs, movies, books (through the iBook store) and apps.

Last, but not least, don't forget to buy a case -- preferably one that stands up, so she can use it as a picture frame. Just tie a red bow around it and you're all set.



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miken

The first computer programmer was a mum.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ada_Lovelace

May 09 2010 at 4:20 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Greg

I bought an iPad for my wife, who is celebrating her first mother's day this year, but gave it to her a week early. She uses it ALL the time while breastfeeding our 2 month old son. The form factor is significantly better for using while otherwise preoccupied, and has helped her to be able to get out to facebook to stay connected with her friends. I always thought it was a glorified iPod touch, but after using it occasionally and seeing how its form factor is much better for a sofa, I'm singing a new song.

May 08 2010 at 11:10 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
jkbrooks

I actually did this for my mother and gave it to her early. I included the following:
Dragon Dictation - you can send an email directly from the app
Voice Memos - She can record a message and email it
Facebook (with an account I set up for her)
Pages
Penultimate for jotting quick notes (also can be emailed in-app)
Layers for drawing
Shazam for ID songs on her favorite shows
ABC Player
Pandora (already one of her favorite programs)
WeatherBug
NPR
Epicurious
Big Oven
iBooks and Kindle

I also set up a Gmail account for her and synced both hers and my own Gmail calenders. I added photos of the family and some scenic ones (we don't take a lot of photos in my family, so twelve albums would a bit hard to do.)

I was able to add music from my existing iTunes account and since we have common music tastes, she loved it and we didn't have to repeat purchase the music. I DID have to switch user accounts to add them (as I am the owner), but since the doesn't seem to care which user is accessing it, this was a great way to pre-load her library.

Lastly, I added a couple of movies and a TV show...

She's enjoying it, it's the first computing device she's ever owned and the typing is a killer because of it, but she's coming a long and we're in contact on a more frequent, less phone-reliant basis.

May 08 2010 at 2:02 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
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Rego

Well done!

May 08 2010 at 3:53 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
eyeellwhy

My mom was a Pascal programmer and she was born in 1929. And I'm a mom and the one everyone comes to for tech support. I'm kind of offended that an iPad is great for your mom because she is too simple to comprehend a computer.

Get her an iPad because they are awesome. I love mine.

May 07 2010 at 8:30 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
c.Bastian

Is it just me or are there just not so many women reading TUAW? I must seriously object to the 'mom' stereotyping that is going on in this article.

I'm a mom and have been for over 30 years, I also have been an Apple geek and early adopter since day one. Being a graphic designer one used a Mac if you were serious about being a designer.

Our home network consist of Linux boxes and Macs with an accidental corporate windows laptop in it.
I still use my original iPhone that I got the day it was released, my husband on the hand still uses his Motorola pre-stone age mobile. For a guy who keeps himself busy with telephony during the day he has surprisingly little interest in the technology that I adore so much. :-)

There are obviously more women/moms out there like me. I know because most of my friends are gadget she-geeks.
And to be honest I would be seriously upset or offended if I would get coffee maker instead of a smart piece of Apple technology on mothers day, unless of course Apple start releasing coffee makers just in time before mothers day :-)

In our family kids come to me with their technology questions, moms nowadays are more interested in stuff that actually works than 10 years ago. So come on guys, give the moms some credit and give her that iPad and don't expect her to share! I wouldn't! Hell would freeze over before I will share my iPad, :-)

May 07 2010 at 8:28 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
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John

Am I missing something? Isn't all the nice content you pre-loaded for mom going to get blown away the first time she syncs it with her computer?

May 07 2010 at 7:37 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Lauram

I want to give a 3G to a friend for his birthday. (It'll be a group gift.) I'm curious about synching it, since he has his own desktop Mac & iPhone. If I load it up with apps and photos before giving it to him at the party will he still be able to sync it when he takes it home? I mean, without losing the photos and apps we put on it for him? What about paid apps?

May 07 2010 at 7:17 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
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Brett

Definitely do not sync it up before giving it; it will be tied to your account and your computer - if you want to give paid apps along with the iPad, 'gift' the apps but don't install or sync anything.

May 07 2010 at 9:49 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Chad

Back before I knew if I would get myself an iPad, I preordered my parents a 3G one. I know they will get a lot of use out of it. Plus it was high time I buy them such an item after they had bought me so many computers over the years. It is going to be their Mother's Day and Father's Day gift; I'm taking it to them next week. Can't wait.

May 07 2010 at 6:57 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Sting is a god

Can one purchase Apple Care on a used iPad bought from Craigslist?

May 07 2010 at 6:16 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
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Mitchell Scott

Yes.

May 08 2010 at 8:01 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Brett

I wouldn't get this for my mom, she types too often and is just getting used to her new Mac Mini - no way I'd try to switch things up on her yet.

I wouldn't get this for my mother-in-law, she hardly uses a computer and the thing she does more than anything on the computer is video chats with two granddaughters.

But I did get one for my wife (and gave it to her early, cause I wanted to use it early) - I was lucky though, she's a (tiny) bit of a gadget junkie, so she wanted to be a part of all of the set-up. All I had to do was bring it home and surprise the heck out of her.

May 07 2010 at 5:45 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
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